What It Really Means to Be a Dom: Balancing Power, Control, and Dark Desires

In this episode we talk about what dominance means in our relationship.

For me, dominance isn’t just about control—it’s about leadership and knowing when to lead with care versus when to tap into my darker side. It's a mix of being the guiding force, making decisions so Aggie doesn’t have to, and embracing the raw, unapologetic aspects of control that we both enjoy.

We explore how dominance can be about everyday actions, not just in the bedroom. I talk about how integrating commands and subtle acts of dominance into our daily lives keeps the dynamic alive, creating a continuous connection that extends beyond scenes.

I also share how important it is for me to put myself first. Self-care, like meditation and taking time to de-stress, helps me show up fully in my role. By prioritizing my needs, I have the mental space to lead confidently and effectively.

I get into the value of understanding the deeper motivations behind dominance and embracing both the light and dark sides of yourself. I think it’s not about always being the “good Dom” or fitting a specific mold. It’s about being true to who you are and finding confidence in your authentic expression of dominance.

Tune in as I tell you what it’s like to be dominant in a D/s relationship, balancing leadership, control, and authenticity in a way that keeps our connection strong and dynamic.

-Adam

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